User guide · rev. 2026.1 · adults 18+

Authors

The people who write the guides, sort out the gear, and shape the stories. Everyone works under a scene name, which is normal in this community, and we are plain about what each writer does and does not claim. Nobody here holds themselves out as a doctor or therapist.

Robin Castell

Technique editor

How to actually do it: angle, pace, warm-up, and getting it right.

Experience: Nine years writing about pegging and strap-on technique.

Devon Marsh

Gear writer

Harnesses, toys and materials, explained without the sales pitch.

Experience: Eight years testing and writing about strap-on gear.

Mara Quinn

Health & communication writer

The safety, the health basics, and how to bring it up.

Experience: Ten years writing about sexual health and communication for lay readers.