Guides

How to start, technique, communication, and doing it safely and well. Written in plain language by people who practise, careful with claims, and clear about safety.

Getting started

1 guide

What pegging and strap-on play are, and how to try them the first time.

Getting started

What is pegging? A plain, non-explicit guide to how it works

What pegging actually means, in plain language: what it involves, why people enjoy it, and how to try it for the first time with consent, warm-up and good communication.

Technique

3 guides

Warm-up, angle, pace, and the small adjustments that make it comfortable.

Technique

How to use a strap-on: warm-up, angle and pace

A practical, non-explicit guide to using a strap-on: fitting the harness, warming up, finding the right angle, and controlling pace so it feels good for both partners.

Technique

Pegging warm up and preparation: the step that matters most

A calm, practical guide to pegging warm up and preparation: relaxing, starting small, building up with lube, and setting the scene so a first time feels good.

Technique

Going slow during pegging: pace and communication

Why going slow during pegging matters and how to do it: letting the receiver lead, keeping it shallow, using a pause signal, and checking in with ease.

Health & safety

1 guide

Hygiene, going slow to avoid injury, and knowing when something needs a doctor.

Health & safety

Pegging safety: body-safe gear, lube and knowing when to stop

A clear guide to pegging safety: body-safe materials, enough lube, going slow, hygiene, and the warning signs that mean stop. Education, not medical advice.

Questions the guides don't answer?

The specifics get worked out between people who have been there, from first attempts to what worked after a few goes. Ask people who peg.

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